My friend Karl asked me the other day, “Where can I get a dildo?” I have to admit, I was taken aback by the question, but I gulped and decided it better to answer than ignore it. We were having a heated debate about the various aspects of human sexuality, and Karl wanted to purchase a dildo, so I decided to help him out.
First thing’s first. If you, like Karl, are considering buying a dildo, you have many options. You could head to a store such as a sex toy shop or lingerie store, of course – these places are a great place to find all sorts of adult toys. But, if you are a bit more shy and don’t want to enter a store, or if you’d rather shop for a dildo from the comfort of your own home, you can also purchase them online. Websites like Love Honey, Adam & Eve, and PinkCherry offer a great selection of dildos, vibrators, and other sex toys for sale.
Another option to consider when buying a dildo is to find a reputable, independent vendor who may have their own shop or even a booth at a local market or fair. These smaller shops often provide louder products than what you may find in a chain store or online retailer. Sometimes, independent vendors carry custom-made products and may even host workshops to teach customers about proper usage and care of the products.
No matter where you decide to buy your dildo, whether it’s from a store or an independent vendor, it’s always a good idea to do a little research on the company you’re dealing with. A few helpful things to look out for when making a purchase include: reviews of the company’s products; information about the company’s return policy; and, if possible, confirmation that the company adheres to proper safety regulations.
Ultimately, the best place to buy a dildo is wherever you feel most comfortable. You should always prioritize your safety and well-being when considering which products and companies to buy from. Karl was quite pleased with the advice I gave him, and he even asked if I wanted to go with him to buy his new toy. After a bit of internal debate, I decided to go – why not? We had an amusing afternoon looking and comparing at all the toys in the store – trust me, there are some interesting ones out there!
Karl also asked me to do more research on dildos, so I continued my search online. I found out that there are all sorts of shapes, sizes, materials, and colors. If you are looking for something discreet, I suggest opting for a smaller dildo with a non-realistic look. However, if you want something soft and squishy feeling, there are also silicone dildos in a variety of shapes and sizes. If you want something that feels and looks like the real thing, there are also lifelike replicas available.
On the other hand, if you are looking for something more intense, you could opt for something like a rotating or vibrating dildo, or even one with sound technology. These advanced dildos provide an incredible sensation during use and can really amp up your experience. Many of them also come with remote controls which let you control them from across the room. Karl certainly was interested in these — I can tell you that!
I also read up on some of the different materials used to make dildos. Some of the more popular materials are silicone, glass, and stainless steel. Each of these materials can provide a different sensation and it’s up to you to decide which one you’d like to experiment with. You should also consider the various coatings available, such as ribbed, smooth, or even ones with ridges or bumps for added pleasure. All of them can provide a varied and exciting experience.