I’m sure most of us have had some embarrassing experience with,or heard of people having awkward experiences with, dildos.You know when you are in the heat of the moment with someone you love and then you hear the thought of “what part of the dildo goes on cloth?” It can make you cringe.
The first thing that comes to my mind when I hear this question is one of my friends who had a funny story about their first time with a dildo.They had no idea how to put the dildo on cloth and their partner was so patient while trying to teach them. I guess they got a crash course in harnessing and all the parts of a dildo right then and there. It was a good learning experience as no one should be embarrassed to ask the basics when it comes to sex and BDSM.
To answer the question, the part that goes on the cloth is the O-ring base of the dildo. It slips over the top of the cloth and the dildo fits into the O-ring. Because the O-ring slide on the fabric, the medium (silicone, plastic, etc.) of the dildo should be non-toxic and compatible with the cloth. Make sure to check the packaging before you purchase the dildo.
The O-ring also allows for the dildo to fit to the size of the cloth. This part is really important because if you don’t get the size right, then it will be too hard to use the dildo properly. Also, it is important to note that the dildo should be able to slide in and out easily without causing damage to the cloth itself.
Once the O-ring is in place, you can attach the harness to the cloth. Some harnesses have sewn-in O-rings while other require you to attach your own. If this is the case, make sure you use a strong fabric glue and take your time to get the perfect fit. Some people also use straps to attach the harness to the cloth.
That’s it – that’s the part of the dildo that goes on the cloth. It can look a bit daunting at first, but you’ll get the hang of it with a bit of practice. I find that the shortest way to get it right is to take it slow and steady and definitely read the instructions. Also, don’t forget to use lots of lube to make it more fun! Good luck!
Another thing to consider is the type of harness to use. Most conventional harnesses are usually made out of leather, nylon, or latex, but you can also find specialised ones made out of a variety of other materials such as silicone or metal. The type of harness you choose will depend on your needs and preferences.
Something else to think about is the shape and size of the dildo. Most dildos can fit into different flat and curved harnesses, but some have more specific shapes which will only fit into certain harnesses. It’s also important to make sure you find the right size for you, as different sizes of dildos can feel different providing different kinds of stimulation.
Another important question to ask yourself is whether you want to use a strap-on dildo or a hands-free dildo. The former is held in place by the harness while the latter is connected to the harness and stays in place without it. The latter is great if you want to be able to switch up positions easily or vibrators explore different angles. However, they can be a bit more difficult to manoeuvre so you may need help from someone else to get the right fit.
Finally, a dildo is only as good as the accessories you use with it. Lube, gloves, and condoms can all be used to make the experience more comfortable and safe. Make sure you invest in good quality products and regular check-ups so you can enjoy your dildo safely.