One of the most common and, perhaps surprisingly, pleasant kinds of sex toys are dildos. But, when it comes to anal play, there can be a lot of confusion about which type is best. Not to mention the fact that there are so many choices! So, what kind of dildo should I get for anal?
Well, it all depends on your experience level and what kind of pressure you’re looking for. Personally, I love the flexible, silicone dildos with a bit of a swell or head. That way, I’m not overwhelmed by the sensation, but I still get the gradual stretching feeling that I crave. And, since silicone is such a smooth material, I don’t have to worry about any damage to my nether regions.
I also recommend using a lube during your pleasure sessions with your new dildo; especially if it’s your first time. I know some people like to use oils, but I think it’s better to pour a little bit of water-based lube onto the head of the dildo to ensure that everything slips and slides nice and smoothly. It’s always good to be extra cautious!
Also, if you’re not sure what size dildo to go with, start small and work your way up. While it’s totally possible to find a 2-3 inch diameter dildo that can get the job done, vibrators I always like to work my way up to a bit bigger for optimum pleasure.
And don’t forget about all of the extras! If you want to add a bit of a buzz to your anal play, you can always invest in a vibrating dildo or a textured sleeve. This will help you achieve even more pleasure, especially if you’re a beginner. However, I would not recommend using an anal plug or other more intense toys if you’re not used to anal play yet.
So to sum it up, when it comes to choosing the perfect dildo for anal, you should always opt for something that’s flexible, silicone-based, and has a bit of a swell near the head. Don’t forget to use plenty of lube and start small if you’re a beginner, and allow yourself to explore anal play by investing in a vibrator or sleeve!